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16 Sep 2010 What Failure Is Not

Failure is not an optionIf you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you.

You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call ‘failure’ is not the falling down, but the staying down. — Mary Pickford

There is it in a nutshell.

  • Failure is not trying something only to find that it does not work. (THAT according to Thomas Edison is getting a RESULT).
  • Failure may mean you may have lost a battle, but it does NOT mean you lost the war.
  • Failure is not falling down. It is staying down.

So here’s an encouragement for you for those days that don’t go exactly according to plan, and we all have those right?

You have not actually failed ….. YET.
So don’t camp on that situation, project or whatever it was that did not work out!

In other words, don’t stay there!

It did not work out because you have not yet found the right way to do it.

  • Remember Edison. He looked at “failures” as result achieved.
  • What results can you see in your situation (lesson, new strategy needed).
  • What can you improve on? (Your focus, your training, more time in personal development each day).
Failure is an event, not a person. — Zig Ziglar

So you see a real failure is one who has tripped up, found something that did not work and stayed there complaining and talking about it for the rest of his life.

You are not there. You simply found something that did not work, or an area you need to improve on.

Get up – brush off that horrible feeling of “failure” – you are not one of those.

JillYou have a fresh start in front of you. Take it and go out and win the war!


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20 Aug 2010 Are You A Worrier Or A Warrior?

Indian WarriorDid you notice that there are only two letters different between the two words worrier and warrior?

Yet these two people are direct opposites in the way they handle situations. Let’s take a closer look.

What does a worrier do?
When faced with a problem or an obstacle in life, a worrier:

  • Focuses on negative possibilities and MEDITATES on them.
  • Goes over in his or her mind the “what ifs”. All of these “what ifs” in his mind have a perceived probability of a negative outcome. Right? (I call this the “what if drama”).
  • Usually the negative outcome of the problem is so real in the worrier’s mind that his emotions are already involved.
  • A worrier is full of fear!

You cannot worry for too long without negative emotions overtaking you. Then the next step is for these emotions (which started from negative thoughts) will travel into the body and even cause sickness!

And the problem is not solved. No one is hurt. Nothing has actually happened – YET. But in the mind and imagination of the worrier the worst has already happened. Ouch!

So in a few words:

A worrier meditates on all the negative possibilities of a situation and his actions will follow.

What does a warrior do?
When faced with a problem or an obstacle in life a warrior:

  • Focuses on the possibilities of winning! (What warrior would ever go into a fight with his or her mind on losing?)
  • The mind of a warrior is trained and discipline to focus on the positive outcomes in any battle. He or she is completely focused on winning!
  • A warrior is full of faith.

So in a few words:

A warrior meditates on the positive possibilities of winning. His mind is focused on strategies for success and plans for success. His actions will follow!

So let’s compare the two again:

A worrier’s mind is filled with FEAR.
Any action that he or she takes will be motivated by fear. This may indeed cause a negative outcome to the situation.

A warrior’s mind is filled with FAITH.
Any action that he or she takes will be motivated by fatih. This creates a high probability of causing a positive outcome to the situation.

Today’s question:
JillAre you are warrior or a worrier? Is your mind filled with FAITH or FEAR?

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