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20 Sep 2010 The Futility Of Worry
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Worried ManAre you a worrier?

We live in a world that has a negative default. This means that we are surrounded by more negative influences than we are positive influences.

Therefore there is always plenty to worry about IF you focus on the negative!

Calvin Coolidge is quoted as saying:

If you see ten troubles coming down the road, you can be sure that nine will run into the ditch before they reach you.

Isn’t this true? How many of those things you worried about actually came true? And even those that did, you have to wonder if your worry made it possible for them actually happen.

Worry is the result of wrong focus.

Here’s a question for you:
How easy is it for you to worry when you are focused on positive thoughts?

It is not possible right?
Negative and positive thoughts don’t mix. Sure it is possible to go back and forth from one to the other, but they cannot dwell together.

One thing worry DID do was send toxic chemicals into your body.
The medical profession is becoming more and more alert to the relationship between what goes on in your mind and what is happening in your body.

Overcoming worry:
Your mind is like a muscle just the same as other parts of your body.

When you do not take care of those muscles, what happens?

Here are two more questions:
Are you in good physical condition? In an emergency, how fast could you run?

Of course in an emergency you would have a little help from your adrenaline, but nevertheless you would need to be fit to sustain a long run.

In the same way your mind needs to be in good condition.

Now, how do you get your body into shape? It takes daily exercise and right diet.

How do you get your mind into shape?

1. Consistent right diet

  • This includes what you are listening to, watching and reading every day, as well as right food diet that will nourish your brain and keep it alert.
  • Watch and listen to motivational and inspirational recordings and videos every day. Read from a non fiction book every day!

2. Consistent right exercise.

  • Aerobic exercises are good for the brain.
  • Read at least 10 pages of a non fiction book every day. Make notes from what you read.
  • Meditate on words that will build your faith. For example The New Testament, Psalms or Proverbs in the Bible, the notes your made from your daily reading.
  • Determine to speak only faith building positive words. Your brain responds to your voice!

Get your mind and your brain into shape and you will not fall into the futility of worry.

JillThen you will be equipped to conquer worry and focus on positive solutions.

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20 Aug 2010 Are You A Worrier Or A Warrior?

Indian WarriorDid you notice that there are only two letters different between the two words worrier and warrior?

Yet these two people are direct opposites in the way they handle situations. Let’s take a closer look.

What does a worrier do?
When faced with a problem or an obstacle in life, a worrier:

  • Focuses on negative possibilities and MEDITATES on them.
  • Goes over in his or her mind the “what ifs”. All of these “what ifs” in his mind have a perceived probability of a negative outcome. Right? (I call this the “what if drama”).
  • Usually the negative outcome of the problem is so real in the worrier’s mind that his emotions are already involved.
  • A worrier is full of fear!

You cannot worry for too long without negative emotions overtaking you. Then the next step is for these emotions (which started from negative thoughts) will travel into the body and even cause sickness!

And the problem is not solved. No one is hurt. Nothing has actually happened – YET. But in the mind and imagination of the worrier the worst has already happened. Ouch!

So in a few words:

A worrier meditates on all the negative possibilities of a situation and his actions will follow.

What does a warrior do?
When faced with a problem or an obstacle in life a warrior:

  • Focuses on the possibilities of winning! (What warrior would ever go into a fight with his or her mind on losing?)
  • The mind of a warrior is trained and discipline to focus on the positive outcomes in any battle. He or she is completely focused on winning!
  • A warrior is full of faith.

So in a few words:

A warrior meditates on the positive possibilities of winning. His mind is focused on strategies for success and plans for success. His actions will follow!

So let’s compare the two again:

A worrier’s mind is filled with FEAR.
Any action that he or she takes will be motivated by fear. This may indeed cause a negative outcome to the situation.

A warrior’s mind is filled with FAITH.
Any action that he or she takes will be motivated by fatih. This creates a high probability of causing a positive outcome to the situation.

Today’s question:
JillAre you are warrior or a worrier? Is your mind filled with FAITH or FEAR?

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