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07 May 2010 Are You Giving Your Dream A Chance?

Asian BuffetToday I treated myself to an Asian Buffet and the meal of course came complete with the Chinese fortune cookie. The quote that came with the cookie was very interesting:

A dream will always triumph over reality, once it is given a chance.

This quote came inside of the proverbial fortune cookie, but what was written was NOT a fortune prediction, but a statement of wisdom.

The truth is you have had a dream since birth.
You were born with a seed in your heart – the seed of your destiny,
dream(s) and the purpose for your life.

Now notice I used the word “seed”. Yes you have always had your dreams in your heart, but it is very possible that you did not recognize them until later in life. Why? Because they were only little seeds.

What do you do with a seed? Plant it – right? Then you nurture it with water and sunshine until it fully matures. Once it is a mature plant it can be harvested and enjoyed.

  • What would happen if the seed was never planted?
  • What would happen if the seed never received any water or there was no goodness in the ground?

Remember the parable of the sower and the seed? There were four kinds of ground where the seed fell as the sower sowed.

  • The hard ground - where everyone tramples through the field and made a hard path.
  • The stony ground which was not too good either for the seeds to be able to grow. They can’t take root because of the stones.
  • The thorny ground. That one was a disaster. Both the good seed and the weeds grew but the weeds grew more and choked the good plants.
  • The good ground where the seed could grow into a health plant.

We could write a book on this!

What kind of ground is the seed of your dream trying to grow in?

The sower sower the seedThe hard ground that is full of negative words, thoughts and negative attitudes such as resentment, anger, fear and even violence?

The stony ground
which has a good measure of the same kind of atmosphere as the hard ground. The difference is there are at least some positive words and attitudes, but not enough for a health plant to grow.

The thorny ground. Oh my, this one is a mess! Both the good seed and the seeds of the weed grow together. But the weeds end up choking the good plants. Not a pretty sight.

This ground illustrates a person who tries to straddle both the negative and positive sides of life. They just don’t mix!

The good ground of course illustrates a person who is dedicated to making sure that their life is like the good ground.

So the moral of this story is:

  • YOU predict your future by your daily habits, words and thoughts.
  • You prepare the ground (or neglect it) for the seeds of your dreams.
  • You make the decision to nurture these seeds AND you take daily action on your decision.

JillThis means that you empower your dream and allow it to be fulfilled or you hinder it and allow it to die.

Are you giving your dream a chance to triumph?


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23 Mar 2010 Discover Your Life Purpose

You and I were created with a sense of destiny. You and I were designed for a purpose. Too many people go through life without discovering this purpose. Have you found yours?

There is something (or some things) that you can do that no one else can do (in the same way that you can). That means if you don’t fulfill your destiny, you will leave a gap in the world.

Do you want to leave a gap or a legacy in this world?

There is nothing in life as satisfying as knowing that you are right in the center of your designed purpose. Without this certainty, everything that you do is in danger of losing its meaning very quickly.

Lets consider some thought provoking questions which perhaps will help you to realize that you have a destiny:

  • After I leave this planet, in what way would this world be a better place because I was once here?
  • If I was to face my last few minutes on this earth right now, what would be my greatest regret? (What have I not done, that I know deep down I should have done, or be doing?)
  • If I was to be given 6 weeks to live, what changes would I make right away?
You have a purpose in life to fulfill, (a WHY). Are you fulfilling it?
When you know that you are fulfilling your purpose,
you will leave this world with no regrets.

We all have:

The ability to influence.
What kind of influence do you want to be to the world around you? What value do you want to leave in this world?

Answer these questions and you will have some strong clues as to what your life purpose is.

The ability to create.
What kind of life do you want to create for yourself and those around you? How you live your life affects others, there is no getting away from that.

The ability to be unique.
No one else can copy you. You are special, you have something to contribute to the world around you that no one else can.

What unique qualities do you notice in yourself? Are you sharing these with those around you?

The ability to succeed and to live in abundance.
Your words (spoken or thought) and your habits predict your future. John Di Lemme.

Are your thoughts and actions helping or hindering your success in life?

The ability to live in health.
You decide how to think, how to eat, how to exercise and take care of your body. All of these things have a huge influence on your health.

Are you creating daily habits for health?

JillAre you using your abilities to fulfill your life purpose?

Great reading for today: Find Your Why Now – by John Di Lemme


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