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10 Mar 2010 Do You Believe In Youself?

What you hear repeatedly you will eventually believe. Dr Mike Murdock.

Do you remember the statistics I shared yesterday – the ones that revealed the number of negative words versus positive words that school children SPEAK every day. The average was 72 positive comments to 684 negative ones.

There is a great likelihood that you grew up hearing (and thinking) a LOT more negative words than you did positive words. I know I did, and yet my sister and I count ourselves blessed to have had the parents we had.

The problem was that they too were surrounded with so much negative growing up that they did not know how to fully combat it.

So even though we were blessed with what could be counted as an “above average home”, a lot of negative influence was still able to creep into our lives.

These negative words and influences mixed up our belief system, especially when it came to believing in ourselves. (Not any more though!)

I am sure you have a lot of very positive and solid beliefs, but when it comes to believing in yourself how are you doing?

This is one of the areas of your life that has most likely been hit the most with all of the negative words you have heard and spoken.

Remember the quote for today?

What you hear repeatedly you will eventually believe. Dr Mike Murdock

It is highly likely that what you believe about yourself needs some tweaking – or perhaps it even needs a complete overhaul. You may well have heard a lot more negative comments about yourself over the years than you heard positive ones.

Consequently you have come to believe some of those negative comments even though they are lies.

It is time to turn that around right?

Here are some facts about YOU.

  • You are a champion!
  • You are in this world because you have something unique that only YOU can contribute.
  • What you can contribute to this world is of GREAT value.
  • There is an enemy who has taken it upon himself to destroy you because he only promotes all that is negative.

This is why it is so necessary to spend quality time every day listening to wholesome motivational recordings and reading great books that will empower you to discover and build up the champion in you.

Here are some of the recordings and books I have in my library:

  1. Download some great mp3s and mp4s from John Di Lemme (free downloads).
  2. Go to Christ Fellowship Archives
    There you will find some free downloadable messages by John Maxwell. While you are there, I am sure you will find the messages by Tom and Todd Mullins challenging and inspiring also.
  3. Go to youtube and do a search for Tony Robbins and Jim Rohn. You will find some great snippets of videos from both of these motivators.
  4. Go to Wisdom Online. Here you will find some great free downloads about wisdom by Dr Mike Murdock.

And the book I read this week is a MUST READ – Go-Givers Sell More.

I have not yet read Bob Burg’s first book – The Go-Giver, but I will be picking up a copy of that one too.

JillI trust that you will find these suggestions to be a great addition to your motivational and inspirational library.

(Disclosure: Some – but not all – of these links may lead to my being paid a commission which helps me to keep this blog going.)


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09 Mar 2010 Your Greatest Asset Or Liability – You Choose

Shut out negative wordsThe greatest asset or liability in your life is your thinking process

John Maxwell.

Yours and my thinking process is influenced by three main areas: Words – Decisions – Mindset.


Words:
Last year I was studying a book about “Accelerated Education” and came across a very interesting story.

Jack Canfield once sent a team of researchers out to accompany 100 school children for a whole day. They were asked to note every negative and positive statement or comment that were spoken by these youngsters. Here are the astounding results:

* The average positive comments spoken were 72 while
* The average negative comments spoken were 684!

So the conclusion is that you and I grew up hearing a LOT more negative words than we heard positive words.

Consequently you spoke and thought more negative words, and this caused your thinking process to become a liability in your life.

However because you are reading this, I know that you have already declared war on all negative words and thoughts in your life. You are already on the road to turning what was a liability into an asset.

Decisions:
Every experience in life causes you and I to make a decision. Our decisions are greatly influenced by our mindset or the framework of our minds.

This can be a vicious circle because every new decision either reinforces your mindset or challenges it. It is always easier to “go with the flow” and allow yourself to reinforce the framework already built in your mind.

However you DO have the ability to make new decisions which may challenge and even start to rebuild the existing framework in your mind.

This does take effort and is the reason that so many people give up and allow their lives to continue on the same old track.

Mindset:
When you discover negative tendencies in your thinking process and make a strong decision to change that you have declared war on your old mindset.

At the same time, you have used the strength of your will to decide you CAN and WILL change your thinking process so that it will become your greatest asset.

The strength you need to make this decision every day and follow through with it will be greatly supported by your daily diet of what you read, listen to and hear.

Every day you will decide to build your new mindset by what you allow to enter the gateways of your life (your five senses).

As you face life’s experiences resolved to stay positive, speak and think positive words and always look for solutions not problems you are making decisions that will change your mindset.

JillYou are rebuilding the framework of your mind (or mindset) that will allow you to build a life of abundance.


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